LIFE & RELATIONSHIPS
first love
Films centered on the experience of romantic love that is formative and inaugural — defined by the intensity, vulnerability, and world-altering quality of loving before experience has built defenses. The register captures the specific phenomenology of first love: the way it reorganizes perception, the terror and exhilaration of emotional exposure, the sense that this feeling is unprecedented. Typically (though not exclusively) adolescent or young-adult in setting. Distinguished from 'wistful-longing' (which is about unfulfilled adult desire and roads-not-taken) by being specifically about the inaugural quality of the feeling rather than retrospective yearning; distinguished from 'coming-of-age' (which is broader in scope — identity, friendship, family, social formation) by being specifically romantic love as the primary subject rather than one thread among many.

Call Me by Your Name
2017

Blue Is the Warmest Color
2013

Romeo and Juliet
1968

Your Name Engraved Herein
2020

You Are the Apple of My Eye
2011

Splendor in the Grass
1961

Lovers of the Arctic Circle
1998

A Brighter Summer Day
1991

The Umbrellas of Cherbourg
1964

Summer with Monika
1953

Moonrise Kingdom
2012

West Side Story
1961

Flipped
2010

Show Me Love
1998

Say Anything...
1989

Like Crazy
2011

Your Name.
2016

West Side Story
2021

Roman Holiday
1953

Three Steps Above Heaven
2010

Somewhere in Time
1980

Hotarubi no Mori e
2011

20th Century Girl
2022

Love Story
1970

Moulin Rouge!
2001